Listen to His Body ???

Communication plays a large role in our day to day activities.  It can make or break any relationship; whether its work, personal, or sexual.  Some people truly believe that what they say is an honest representation of how they feel.  Sorry to be the bearer of bad news, but science thinks otherwise.  Here's some fun facts for me to paint you a picture with:

>> Out of Feelings and Attitudes
*7% is spoken.
*38% is paralinguistic (the way that the words are said).
*55% is body language (including facial expressions)

Ok, so its looking like words dont mean crap when it comes to dealing with someone... But all of these "Communication Antics" contributes to the ungodly notorious SHADED.GREY.AREA. that we all try to avoid when dealing with a beau.  Being in my 20's, Im honestly enjoying the Single Life with all of my amazingly single (&& sexy) girls roaming all over the east coast to the midwest.  We always seem to vent about potential "Like-interest" and how we never know what guys are thinking.. But according to the rules of communication, we can and should be able to tell.. Right :/ ???. However this is NOT the case we cant always rely on these 3methods of madness aforementioned above.  So where exactly does this leave us??

Personally, Im not one to communicate crap.. i feel like id be wasting my breath and expect the male species to "JUST GET IT".. this also stems from my internal theory that guys dont have feelings... which is probably why i dont "communicate" my own. Guys can say they dont want to be in a relationship with someone but want to play house at the same time (thas another story for 1of my girls to discuss).  Then on the other side of the spectrum, theres the men who are classified as Dogs who speak the "i.love.u's" but want to be get with all your friends, and their friends too.  And this section, ladies & gentlemen, is where the mixed signals come into play which directly arouse the shaded grey region.  It would be easier if they all just kept it real... real meaning, let your actions and words align to override the basic BS that sooo many females fall for.  But according to the communication break down: "i [he] can show u better than i can tell u!"